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#1 Tip for Sales Success: Learn Representational Systems

One of the oldest sales ‘tricks' I learned is that as soon as you enter a prospect’s office you should look for something you have in common.

Picture of himself fishing?  Talk about the trips you used to take with your dad.

Picture of his kids? WOW!  You get to chat with her about YOUR kids.

Ugh. Let’s move ahead a few decades and discuss Representational Systems.  A sales and more importantly, a communication tool, brought to us from the world of Neuro Linguistic Programming.*

There are 5 Representational Systems and they are associated with our senses. Each of us favors one of them in how we learn and if you can master the technique of learning which one your clients and prospects favor, your communication with them will be more effective.

The shorthand way of describing Representational Systems is by the acronym VAKOG.  VAKOG is an acronym for VISUAL, AUDITORY, KINETIC, OLIFACTORY, and GUSTATORY.  There is another called Auditory Digital.

Here is how you can recognize the four major Representational Systems:

VISUAL – People who are visual often stand or sit with their heads and/or bodies erect, and with their eyes up.  They often sit forward in their chair and tend to be organized, neat, well-groomed and orderly.  They memorize by seeing pictures, and aren’t often distracted by noise. They tend to have trouble remembering verbal instructions, as their minds tend to wander. A visual person will be interested in how your program “LOOKS.”  Here are expressions you can use to speak to them:

How does that look? Looks good to me. I see what you mean. Let me paint you a picture.

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AUDITORY – People who are auditory will quite often move their eyes sideways. They typically talk to themselves, and can be easily distracted by noise. They can repeat things back to you easily, they learn by listening, and usually like music and talking on the phone. They memorize by steps, procedures, and sequences (sequentially).  The auditory person likes to be told how they’re doing, and responds to a certain tone of voice or set of words. They will be interested in how your program “sounds,” and what you say about it. In addition to adding sound effects into your speech, here are expressions you can use to speak to them:

I hear you. Sounds good. That rings true. It’s music to my ears. I hear that loud and clear.

KINESTHETIC – These folks tend to speak very …… slowly. They respond to physical rewards and touching. They also stand closer to people than a visual person. They memorize by doing or walking through something. They will be interested in your program if it ‘feels right’ or if you can give them something they can grasp. Get into your feelings and use these expressions to speak to them:

Do you feel me? Reach your goals. Touch your goals. Results are within your grasp.

AUDITORY DIGITAL – This person will spend a fair amount of time talking to themselves. They memorize by steps, procedures, and sequences. They will be interested in your program if it ‘makes sense.’  The AD people can exhibit characteristics of the other major representative systems.

You may be curious how to use these learning modalities in your work. While they are not a guarantee of closing the deal, you ARE helping people capture your message.   During our Small Business Marketing Plan Bootcamps, we have coaching breaks after each section. As a way to capture attention, we use sentences like: “In this last section, who saw something new?” and “What rang the most true?” and “How will it help you reach your goals?”  and “What this section means to you is…..

Finally, let’s remember a study dating back to 1964 (Professor Albert Mehrabian) first stated that the words you say are 7% of what someone uses to make a decision.  38% is decided by HOW you say it and 55% is the physiology.  We will discuss these differences in an upcoming blog.

If you want help deciding which of the Representational Systems apply to you, connect with us and we will share a test with you that will demonstrate it. Call us at 800-705-4265 or go to and you can get into our calendar after taking a short marketing assessment survey.

*Sharyn and Hank Yuloff are certified Neuro Linguistic Programming practitioners.

The Best Speaker Training Event Ever!

Did you miss us last week while we were immersed in Speaker Training?

(if you know how to turn our video, please let us know!)

Did you catch Tuesday's radio show?

We spent the first half of the show recapping our adventures with Evolution Seminars.

Are you a speaker?

Do you want to know how to ensure that your audience feels exactly what you want them to feel?

We can't recommend Matt Brauning's speaker training enough!

We were broken up into “pods” of 5 plus a trainer, and that's where we spent most of our 6, 12-hour days.

First we could only stand still…to break us of the habit of talking with our hands and pacing.

Gradually, we got our ability to speak, but only specific phrases.

Then we got our hands back, but only specific motions.

Next we were allowed to walk, but only in specific ways.

Lastly, we were allowed to add back our content and an offer.

All of this, while learning the basics of NLP (neurolynguistic programming).

The most fun part of the week was graduation.

We got to share just one of the 5 stories we had been practicing all week, but only the opening (check out our videos above). The 30 remaining students all paraded across stage, one at a time, sharing just the opening 2 minutes of their story. After all 30 had shared, all 30 paraded back across the stage, in the same order, sharing the closing 15 seconds of their story. It was so much fun!

Here are our closing videos:

Speaking of closing…we closed out the radio show learning more about Wil Bowers‘ career as actor and Legal Shield independant associate.

How often do you reach out to your lawyer? We use our Legal Shield membership regularly. In fact, we'll probably be calling them tomorrow to advise us on a contract! We even dropped a competing ID theft protection contract to sign up with theirs (Legal Shield has a great comparison chart that totally swayed us).

What if your doctor was recommending a surgery, like removing your appendix, but your health records erroneously said you already had it removed? Most of us think of identity theft only regarding our credit. However, we've learned that our health records are now more often stolen than credit. Amazing, isn't it?!?

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Ready to hear all about our speaker training and our friend Wil? Here again is the link to Tuesday's Radio Show!

Oh yeah…would you like the end of those stories? Here you go:

(ah…got it right that time!)